Media personality Mkamburi Chigogo has weighed in on Pastor Victor Kanyari’s recent public behavior following the death of his former wife, gospel musician Betty Bayo. Kanyari, who has been deeply involved in the funeral arrangements and seen in tears during preparations, has drawn mixed reactions online over his emotional display.
Speaking on Wednesday, November 12, 2025, Chigogo openly criticized the pastor’s approach, suggesting that his actions came too late.
“Because you can clearly see, Kanyari is now behaving like the husband. Lakini na yeye Kanyari…wanaume… Remember when I said men take their wives for granted until they die? And then hapo ndio mtu sasa analeta sarakasi,” she said.
How Did Pastor Kanyari React to Betty Bayo’s Passing?
Kanyari has expressed his pain publicly through an emotional tribute shared on social media, mourning the woman he once shared his life with and the mother of his two children.
“It hurts in ways I can’t explain. You left before I could say everything I needed to. I still see you in every laugh our children give, in every little habit that reminds me of you,” Kanyari wrote.
Betty Bayo, known for her gospel hit The 11th Hour, succumbed to blood cancer on Monday, November 10, 2025. Her passing has sparked an outpouring of grief across the gospel community, with many fans and fellow artists paying tribute to her legacy.
Why Has Kanyari’s Involvement Sparked Public Debate?
Kanyari’s visible presence in funeral preparations has been seen by some as a sincere gesture of respect and responsibility, while others, including Chigogo, interpret it as an act of guilt or regret. His active role, however, underscores the emotional weight of losing someone who remained significant to him even after their separation.
Observers have noted that Kanyari’s actions, overseeing arrangements, speaking at gatherings, and offering support to their children, reflect both personal grief and a sense of duty. His involvement shows an effort to honour Betty’s memory while helping his family navigate a painful loss.
Chigogo’s remarks, though critical, have also reignited an important reminder about appreciating loved ones while they are still alive. Her message resonated with many who believe that life’s unpredictable nature calls for compassion and gratitude in relationships before tragedy strikes.
At the center of the conversation is not just criticism but a broader reflection on love, family, and the deep emotions that accompany loss. Kanyari’s mourning and public vulnerability reveal the lasting bond he shared with Betty Bayo, one that continues to shape his life and their children’s even after her passing.
By Risper Akinyi