Mike Sonko’s daughter, Saumu Mbuvi, has spoken out after her father publicly discussed her bipolar condition during the late Kimani Mbugua’s burial. In a heartfelt post shared online, Saumu opened up about how the remarks deeply affected her, describing them as painful but also an opportunity to reclaim her story with courage and honesty.
Why Did Sonko’s Remarks Hurt His Daughter?
During the burial, Sonko mentioned that Saumu had battled bipolar disorder, drawing parallels between her condition and that of the late journalist Kimani Mbugua. “My own daughter, Saumu, had the same condition as Kimani Mbugua and Conjestina. I could have taken her to the US, London, or India. But I took her to Mama Amina, and she was treated along with the others, so that they don’t think I dumped them there. I thank God my daughter healed,” he said.
Saumu later shared an emotional response on social media, saying that hearing her father speak publicly about her struggles without her consent was hurtful. “Lately, so much has been said about me. Things that cut deeply, especially because they came from people I love. I’ve been called names, judged, and misunderstood by many who never stopped to ask what I was truly going through. I want to speak from a place of honesty and peace.”
She confirmed that she had indeed battled bipolar disorder, describing it as a test that stretched her emotionally and mentally. However, she clarified that she had never struggled with substance addiction. “But what I have never battled is drug addiction. I was never in rehab for that. I sought help for my mental health, not because I was lost in addiction, but because I was fighting to find myself again.”
Saumu expressed that it was painful to be shamed for seeking healing, especially by a family member. “To anyone who has ever been mocked for their mental health journey, or judged for needing help: please know, you are not broken. You are human. You are worthy of understanding and love. I may be bruised, but I am not destroyed. And even through tears, I choose grace over bitterness, and truth over silence.”
How Did Kenyans React to Saumu’s Message?
Many Kenyans online rallied behind Saumu, expressing empathy and encouragement. Instagram user karenzo.nyamu wrote, “Nothing to be ashamed of, baby. We have all battled something in our lives. I know your dad did it to encourage and comfort others, oblivious to what it would make his little girl feel. Maskini, he must be regretting it now. It’s ok not to be ok.”
Another user, nurse_tef, added, “I felt it wasn’t his place to mention your name in reference to the mental health issue,” while just__blaq assured her, “You’ll be fine, babe. Continue working on yourself.”
Saumu closed her message with hope and faith, reminding her followers that healing is a process and strength is built through vulnerability. “My story is not one of shame, but of survival, courage, and faith. And I know that, with time, God will turn even this pain into purpose. It’s okay not to be okay.”
By Modester Nasimiyu
