Alex Mwakideu has weighed in on ongoing conversations surrounding Mulamwah’s child, using the moment to address men about cultural responsibility, parenting, and early communication. Speaking publicly on Tuesday, January 6, 2025, Mwakideu referenced claims circulating online and questioned the situation directly, saying, “Hii mambo ya Mulamwah ni ukweli?”
He acknowledged the widespread discussion on social media, noting, “Najua kumekua na kisa pale mtandaoni,” before explaining claims made by Mulamwah’s former girlfriend regarding the child’s wellbeing. According to the narrative shared, the child allegedly cried for an extended period, prompting concern. Mwakideu repeated the claims as they were presented, stating, “Hali, hanywi, halali, mtoto wa Mulamwah hana raha.”
He explained that the former girlfriend decided to act after observing the situation, choosing to return the child to Mulamwah’s home. “Akasema acha nimrudishe mtoto kwao nyumbani,” he said, adding that the decision was implemented.
Once the child arrived at Mulamwah’s home, Mwakideu noted a visible change. “Alipofika nyumbani pale kwa kina Mulamwah, yule mtoto akatulia kabisa,” he stated. He further explained that Mulamwah later shared a post showing the child playing and appearing happy, reinforcing the claims of improvement.
What Cultural Perspective Did Alex Mwakideu Highlight?
Mwakideu said the situation appeared to suggest that the child had missed his biological father. “Ikaonekana kuwa mtoto alikua ame miss baba yake mzazi, Mulamwah,” he explained. Using this observation, he shifted the conversation toward cultural understanding and parental responsibility, directing his message specifically to men.
“So wanaume mumeombwa,” Alex said, urging men to take responsibility and initiate conversations early. He emphasized the importance of explaining cultural expectations to young women before pregnancy. “Mwanze kuwaambia watoto wa kike hizi vitu na mapema kabla ya kuwapachika mimba,” he added.
He revealed that several young women had approached him with concerns linked to cultural beliefs and practices. “Watoto wa kike wameomba,” Alex said, explaining that in some traditions, children are believed to fall ill without clear medical explanations. He described claims where a child cries for weeks, is taken to hospital, and doctors find nothing wrong.
According to these beliefs, the solution may involve returning the child to their paternal home to fulfill a cultural requirement. “Kumbe anatakikana aende akanyage mchanga ya kwao,” he explained, highlighting how such practices are interpreted in certain communities.
Why Did Alex Say He Spoke Out?
Mwakideu concluded by clarifying that he shared the message at the request of others. “Watoto wa kike wameniambia nikuje niseme na linitoke,” he said. He stressed that the discussion was meant to raise awareness around cultural practices, accountability, and the importance of clear communication between partners.
By Modester Nasimiyu